First of all, are you really peaceful in your heart? The answer is NO. Why? Because you talk about love ones, people who are important to you and etc.

Ones can only be peaceful if you are not burdened. You are not responsible to the people around you. I do not want to use the word love ones because the definition is incorrect. There are no love ones in this entire world because you can love this person at this moment but the next moment you may wish the same person going to ‘hell’.

People around you may be important to you at this point of time but not the next. I used to see a lot of parents calling their children ‘darling’ in that moment but the next moment the children are called ‘brat’ or even ‘monster’.

Love only happens from moment to moment and there are no love ones in this entire world, no matter it is your husband, your wife or even your children, there are expectations you demand from them. To convince people to be peaceful, is like dropping water into the ocean, which is to no avail, without any use.

Real peace can only be attained when there are no burden, no expectation. If a person still has links, expectations and burden, to be peaceful is just a trick to the mind.

I have heard: A marketing sales manager talking a fresh and new marketing executive in a in retail shop. “You just need to remember one thing, when you talk to potential customer, keep repeating the word, you need this, you need this to relax your body, you need this for your parents, you need this after a hard day work like today…”

Keep on repeating the same words will drive the person unconsciously to a certain things.
Nowadays, there are also techniques available to let you talk to yourself to gain confidence and etc. These are methods to tune your mind to certain things but it will not remain forever. Everything that has a start definitely has an end.

Again, every human being is unique and to be peaceful does not mean it is right as it may be just a trick that you are trying to be nice.

Remember, to be peaceful in yourself is not doing.

© by Xunler at http://lifejourneyanswer.com

—As a disciple from great masters, XunLer is a meditator since 1999. You can find more of the author works in http://lifejourneyanswer.com—