You are feeling this because you had never felt what is love before. In the society today, a lot of so called “love” is expected to have returns. When you love your father, your mother, your husband, your wife, your boyfriend, your girlfriend, you are expecting they love you back. It is even better if they love you more, than you love them, because the one who is ready to give more love is the one to be manipulated. There is a reason why there is saying that the parents can never win their own children because the parents always love the children more. Just remember, if love is use on a weighing scale then it is just plainly manipulation, it is never pure love.

Pure love can temporary fill your whole heart. Have you ever remember the first girl or the first boy that you like when you are young? This particular person may not be rich, handsome or good in study but you are just purely attractive to him or her? This is pure love, love without any convention. But pure love can only last for some time, then the environment kicks in, the logic mind came in, you will expect more from him or her. This is what had happened to boy-girl, parents-children, husband-wife relationship.

To have a heart fill with love, the love produce have to be constantly over-flowing out from you. If you have been in meditative state before you may have glimpses of this feeling before. You may have feel that you almost explode with love and you have to let the love over-flow from you to the others. It is never easy to describe love with words but understanding with meditative experience do helps.

If you are not ready for meditation yet, observe and understand more on things happens around you. Try to be aware of everything that you do.