Question: I am in my twenties. I live half a globe away from my parents which adopted me when I was 9. Festive season like this always makes me wondering why my real parents gave me up. How can this thought go away? Will it affect my inner life journey?
This thought cannot vanish into the air as you wish. Thoughts and mind are very alike. The more you tried to make it disappear the more it will come back to you.
Every single human being in this world IS very unique. There are no two similar persons in this world lead the same life experience. Each of the experience belongs only to you. There were sayings that “children are very unique to the parents”. This is not right because every human being is unique only to their own, nobody own the other. Please bear this in mind.
There are a lot of stories that sees only one sibling or one in the family begin their inner journey themselves. A very solid understanding and experience can lead ones to the path.
These may be your experience and your understanding that brings you to your inner self. It may be a good start for you.
© by Xunler at http://lifejourneyanswer.com
—The author XunLer is a disciple from a great master is practicing meditation since 1999. Self-searching is the real route of all life journey. You can find more at the above link.–
to whoever is this, this thought will eventually goes away, do not worry.