Question: I am 28 and married for 5 years. This marriage was an arranged marriage. My husband is a nice guy from a very mediocre family from the countryside but he has many health problems. I have met a wonderful guy now and I need to know how can I be psychologically ready to resolve this problem?

Society is separating people into different social status. When there is a difference in class and status, people in the higher status would like to experience the luxury that they are having while the poor is striving to reach the better social status. If only the human being is able to see that there is no social status in the world, social status is created out of the ego, out of the nothingness.

And love is a very fragile bond, love may be flowing this moment but the next moment, it will not be there. Love will not exist forever but moment to moment. Things or matter that will not change or stagnant will become stink, spoiled just like water in a closed jar. Love is like an ocean, vast and with waves.

Human being should not live in the past in memories but living in the now, in this moment. In the east, there are quite a lot of things that people need to follow, a lot of traditions. I am not against traditions, there are lessons to learn from different traditions but these traditions needs to go through transition. The master say, if only the east and west merge then the real freedom may be possible.

There is no right or wrong in relationship and remember every human has their own journey. It may be difficult for you to choose a path but the journey is yours and you, only you, knows which path really fits you. Remember, every human being is special and unique.

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—The author XunLer is a disciple from a great master is practicing meditation since 1999. Self-searching is the real route of all life journey. You can find more at the above link.–